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MY BODY MUSE

3/1/2015

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Do you trust your body?
In fifth grade I missed approximately twenty-one days of school. The teacher actually read aloud the names from the the list of top 5 miscreants who had ‘skipped out on learning’, and I took second place to someone who had mono. I’d actually been suffering from terribly debilitating allergies, but in that moment, at age ten, I just thought I was 'bad' & 'weak'. So I listened to adults who told me I had to ‘buck up’. (One school nurse actually told me that I wasn’t really sick, I just invented reasons to stay home on the days when the most exciting, Must-See-TV events were happening on General Hospital & Days of Our Lives. I started watching soap operas that year just to find out what she was talking about).

I didn’t have a lot of sick days at my high school for the performing arts. Morning academics were hard as hell and all afternoon, instead of sports, we had kick ass, intense arts classes. Evenings and weekends were spent in rehearsal or studio practice time. Despite double the homework, triple the physical & emotional exhaustion, and quadruple the commitment, nobody complained. We all thought that getting to do what we loved and being taken seriously as artists made us the luckiest kids on earth. Shocker: being happy made me less sick. But of course, one day I did feel yucky. My teacher sent me to the school nurse.

When the nurse clucked and told me I was sensitive, I braced for the 'buck up' lecture. Imagine my surprise when she added: “Being sensitive is lucky. Everyone’s body talks. Sensitive people are more likely to listen. That's how you fix minor issues before they became major. Better to listen to your body’s whispers before they become screams.” Then that incredible medical professional told me: “Take two days off: one sick day to get better and then one mental health day. Take a bath, take a walk, read a non-school book... do something nice for yourself to refill your depleted well, and then get back to work.” 


That amazing woman invited me to start learning how to understand messages from my Body-Muse. I wish every young person was given that gift.

I found out my Body-Muse's messages to my sensitive self are very loud and very clear:
 
If I’m not ‘handling’ a situation that needs to be dealt with, my hands break out in eczema or hives. If I don’t digest my emotions/acknowledge them, I get a stomach ache. If I stop being creative, my ovaries throw fits during moon cycles. I also found out my Body-Muse gives me cravings for food that contain the exact nutrients that she needs to function well (like, when she needs calcium, she nudges me towards cheese. If I need iron, she’ll suggest my fave New England treat: steamed clams (YUM) and suddenly kale needs to be added to every dish I make. I am also grateful to her for suggesting regular walks to and from the library when I lived in NYC, since those library lions eventually found their way into my books! 

From the way I've been bouncing in my office chair to the music in my headphones today, I'm pretty sure my Body Muse wants me to go take a dance class ASAP!

What are the ways your Body-Muse inspires you/talks to you? 

What does your Body Muse want you to do today? 

5 Comments
Megan
3/2/2015 06:00:28 am

I love this. I have never labeled the intuition I feel in my bones, and in my body, but for me it's presence is defiantly a gift. I've learned over the years how to intuitively eat, based directly from my "body muse" and listen to her whenever I feel emotion I'm my gut, because she never leads me astray from my true intentions.

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Jodi link
3/2/2015 07:52:04 am

Megan:
I love that you wrote, "I'm my gut" instead of "in my gut" because its so amazingly true and on point! Intuitive eating is such a huge thing, such a game changer. Yay you! Thank you so much for sharing!

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Tatum Crigger
3/2/2015 07:56:09 am

This post couldn't have come at a better time- my body has been talking to me for weeks and lately it hasn't been saying very nice things. But then again, I've not been listening very well either :) I view my body as two separate beings- physical and spiritual- and I need to make sure both are being 'fed' properly, or otherwise I feel completely out of balance! Yoga helps balance me physically and spiritually- dancing and writing, eating and sleeping…so many important factors to take into consideration!

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Kathleen
3/2/2015 09:37:47 am

right now my body muse is asking for a nap. When I was really unhappy and confused in a job, I got hives on my hands. My neck and back speak up; I am not always clear on what they are trying to say, but I make sure I listen, for when I don't they get louder. We all hold emotions in our bodies; as a body worker, it is important not to take on others' emotions, and it is amazing to help others release their old schmutz.

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Jodi link
3/10/2015 05:10:43 am

Thank you Tatum & Kathleen for your amazingly insightful comments. It's so great to hear your stories about how well you listen to and care for your bodies (and minds and spirits!). Knowing how many messages women receive daily about "fixing" themselves, it's inspiring to read how you all choose to love yourselves and listen to your inner body muses! Thank you so much for sharing!❤️

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